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7 reasons you should keep your marriage private

An adage state: “Relationships last longer when nobody knows nothing about it”.
A relationship is sometimes a reserved place where two people could find solace, trust, and support, driven by a commitment to honor, love, and respect.
 Marriages require a few essential elements to maintain. At the top of the list is privacy.
Getting married is one thing, sustaining the marriage is another. In times past, people were very quick to allow others meddle into issues affecting their families, especially when it involves one of the spouses.
While this, in some cases, has its benefits, one of which includes seeing things from another party’s perspective. However, there are a lot of times when extra people were brought into family affairs, and things don’t go in the best direction.
Given that not everyone actually is happy that you are happy and they are looking for an opportunity to spoil the happiness.
Therefore, these are seven reasons you should keep your marriage private.
1.      You Open Yourself To Negative Opinions:
Most times when we vent and go about expressing our anger and displeasure about our spouse, we often talk mostly about the partner’s faults and not ours. Also, most times we usually relay these complaints to people close to us, probably our friends or a family member we are close to.
It is likely for that family member of yours to take your side and God helps you the person you reported your spouse to dislikes your spouse. This will be the perfect opportunity to “badmouth” your spouse. Hence, you are usually more open to negative opinions when you go outside of your marriage to resolve issues.
2. You can filter pictures, not your relationship:
The evolution of social media has only increased our lust for recognition and makes it easier to get. However, becoming intoxicated by the attention of others is dangerous for your relationship. The issue arises when a couple is more in love with the glamour of having a social media relationship than an actual bond.
Keeping your relationship private keeps your motivations pure. You want to make sure that every day you decide to move forward in your relationship you are doing so because you couldn’t imagine a life without your partner, not because you are addicted to the false approval of social media viewers. That’s the relationship goals.
3. It gives the chance for your ex to be in your business:
 The only worse than a third party being in your marriage is allowing your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend it could jeopardize the marriage if the marriage doesn’t have a strong bond. Hell-bent and determined to poke holes in your new love affair. Disclosing too much to your ex can leave the relationship vulnerable. “Be wise”.
4.  Everyone won’t be happy for you:
There are some people so distraught with their own lives and will go out of their way to ruin other people’s happiness. The bitter truth is, not everyone wants to see you move forward, and certainly not happy. Sad, yes but true.
This is why you should be careful about expressing your complaints to third parties. The less people know about your personal life, the less they have to speak on.
5. It can displease your spouse:
Most of our spouse doesn’t like the idea of allowing the third party in the marriage so any time you share problems with others, it can displease the spouse and even become embarrassing.
 It can damage their image in front of others and while you and your spouse have moved on about the issue, the third party may not and it can affect their relationship with your partner.
6.   You tend to put too much pressure on your relationship:
This is particularly true when you are a “social media couple”. Every little thing you do, you are quick to post online or any trip you go before we know it, it’s on the gram. This has a way of putting a lot of pressure on your relationship.
Relationships are already hard work without feeling the need to impress other people. Give your relationship and your partner a stress-free environment to learn, make mistakes, and evolve without feeling weighed down by the need to uphold a false image created by social media.
7.    Why should you not keep your marriage private?
Honestly, keeping your marriage a private affair saves you a whole lot of headache and even make the marriage peaceful and blissful so why should you not? Fine, you may not keep it a secret but really, you should keep your marriage, your home private!

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